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About Me

Relationship Coach & Lifestyle Blogger

Hello! My name is Nikki, I am a young wife, mom to two little fur babies, and love all things pink. I am a firm believe in using feminine energy in attracting high-value partners, build strong, romantic relationships, and in creating a fabulous life for yourself! So sit back, grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy!

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  • 🌟{BLOG POSTS}🌟 Missing those warm, sunny days🌞 now that fall is here🍁. The leaves🍂 are changing, the mornings and nights are chilly, and I'm wearing fuzzy socks and a sweater 24/7. But I guess I don't mind at the same time. I'm home more, which means I'm back to my regular homemaking schedule, preparing my home for the upcoming cold, rainy days and relaxing before the holiday season approaches. Now that I'm inspired❤️ in my role as a homemaker once again, I realized just how overwhelming it can get, as well as, like any other career, there are skills you can acquire and learn to make your life more efficient, fulfilling, and simple😊 Links in bio on Tips on Being a Better Homemaker When Feeling Overwhelmed, and Essential Skills Every Homemaker Should Learn for a Simpler Life ❤️
  • "I love you not because of anything that you have, but because of something I feel when I'm near you." ❤️😘
  • Summer is fading away🏖️☀️ and autumn is coming in full swing🍁🍂 Even though I'm not ready to say goodbye to summer, I'm looking forward to what fall has to offer every year. The fall decor is out🍁, yet the floral still blooms in my home💐 The pumpkin chai tea☕🥧 and hot cocoa has emerged from the back of the cupboards, yet I still crave ice cold lattes and fruity ice teas🍹Oh well, I suppose I will enjoy the balance right now while I can 😝
  • 🌟Introducing Nala cat!🐱🌟 I'm not sure what breed she is since I rescued her, but according to the chart about cats on Google, with her list of characteristics and mannerisms, she is a Bombay cat, which sounds pretty awesome to me 😝 I'll accept that! 🙋 Quite a handful this one is, but I love her none-the-less. Even when she wakes us up at 4am for food, or scratches the couch when she wants attention, or hits you in the face with her tail as you're sleeping 🙄 All the same, she's my first fur baby as I became a wife, and she turned me into a mom not too long before that 😁
  • My day at the Sunflower Festival🌻 was so much fun! Just seeing a field of sunflowers growing as tall as they possibly can, some even to 9 feet tall, was amazing, next to taking a million pictures!🌻🐝 • • Did you know that Feminine Energy💋 is actually nourishment? For what you ask? Masculine Energy💪, of course!! Men feed off of our energy, our vibes, and if we have a healthy, high vibe, it FULFILLS them!! It's true what they say: what you put out into the world🌎 is what you will receive in return☝️. So keep your vibes high, reach for the stars🌟, or at least as high as the sunflowers I saw today 😄🌻 • • As a Feminine Energy partner, just BEING is enough. Being present, being yourself, embodying your feminine self (whether you are a wild + fierce Queen or a soft + flowy one) it's all you have to do!! You don't need to DO, DO, DO all the time if you want to attract a Masculine partner. It is the KEY 🗝️ to attracting not just any man, but the RIGHT man. Some men will resist, some may try and change you, some may just end up disappearing entirely when you won't bend to their will - those are the ones you run from! You do not need to change who you are for ANYONE!!!🙅 If he isn't doing his part as a masculine man, then he isn't boyfriend or husband material ❎ TRUTH!!! This is how we as women have been created, so embrace your Feminine Energy to attract positive people, high value men, create growth in your relationships, bring harmony to your life, and let your confidence bloom! 🌻 • • 📷: @belletrist._
  • 🌟Fun Fact: Not only do I LOVE 😍 anything pink and pastel, but I ADORE vintage! I collect vintage teaware☕, with a cabinet full of teacups, saucers, teapots, and other little tea goodies; I love vintage nightwear, the chiffon and lace nightgowns, robes, and peignoirs that are hard to find today; perfume bottles, furniture, accessories, etc. I hunt for it, searching high and low for particular items that I have on my mind, some for even years!!! I truly (try) and live the life of the modern day 50s housewife 👰 • • Maybe one day I'll do a live on here all about my vintage collection 😘 Would anyone be interested in seeing that?
  • Respect is one of the key factors in having a healthy relationship. It's probably one of the most important ones in my opinion 🙋 Without it, what's the point of even being with another person if you're not going to treat them as you WANT to be treated in return, the way you DESERVE to be treated!!! It's also not a very difficult thing to achieve, it's as easy as 1️⃣,2️⃣,3️⃣ or in this case, 6️⃣ simple and easy ideas on how you can start choosing and showing respect to your husband right now: • • 1️⃣ Build him up instead of tearing him down 😊 2️⃣ Share what's on your mind and heart❤️ He's not a mind reader, so just say it! 3️⃣ Become BEST friends, and even BETTER lovers 😍🙈😉 4️⃣ Put more effort into your role as a wife👰👫 rather than just mom👩‍👧‍👦Marriage comes first!💍 5️⃣ Speak loving, uplifting, and encouraging words💕 6️⃣ Forgive him, just as Christ has forgiven you💏 • • What are some ways you show respect to your husband? I'd love to hear them!
  • "I will not be another flower, picked for my beauty and left to die. I will be wild, difficult to find, and impossible to forget." - Erin Van Vuren
  • If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value. • • Ladies, if you're spending a majority of your time⌚ and a lot of energy and effort trying to please someone else (especially a man who isn't making the same effort in return), you are devaluing yourself. No, I'm not saying you're NOT🙅 allowed to make your boyfriend, fiance, or husband happy and treat him from time to time. I'm talking about giving ALL your time, ALL your energy, ALL OF YOU, to the point that you lose yourself! To the point where you become so over-bearing and over-giving, that you unconsciously are making a man either 1. Run the other way and leave you hanging & heartbroken💔, 2. He begins to fall out of love with you💔, or 3. He begins distancing himself, and you end up trying even harder to gain his attention back! You DO NOT🙅 need to do that, and you're going into masculine energy mode. • • You know what high-value, masculine men like? Women who do what they want and who are living life the way she wants💁. Not a woman who throws down her entire life down for a man and chases him for his affection, attention, and doing whatever he wants🤦. Men don't want a woman who is another mother to them to be at their beck and call. They want a woman who is a high-value, feminine Queen👸👑 A woman who he wants to spend his life with!!! Your job is to just be - to radiate beauty, love, and femininity. Men love that!!! They love seeing women going out with their friends, conquering their careers, owning who they are as a woman 😍💕 If a man doesn't allow you to do any of that - bye bye!! 🙋 • • So ladies who are single, dating, or married, remember, all you have to do is just be present, enjoy the moment, live your life the way you want, with a man who supports you in whatever you want to do and treats you like an absolute QUEEN 👑😍💍
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